Law of Success
The Power of Expectation
Have you ever hit a plateau in your personal of business life? Not growing, not moving forward, everything is just average. It’s time to get off it and get on with it.
The ten greatest two-letter words are: If it is to be it is up to me!So how do you get on with it. By changing the questions you are asking yourself.
Questions are the laser beams of human consciousness. When the right questions are asked, their power can cut through any obstacle or challenge. What is the difference between average success and ultra success? Quite simply, successful people have developed the habit of asking better questions, and as a result, get better responses. Quality questions create a quality life. You need to burn this idea into your brain, because it’s as important as anything you will ever learn.
Remember, it’s not only the questions you ask, but the questions you fail to ask that shapes your destiny.
What questions are you currently asking yourself? In business, we should ask the right questions regarding what kind of patients we want: PI, cash family, etc. This shapes our marketing and our focus. This determines our strategic planning, which determines our budget, and our action plan. When we work on relationships, our questions are focused on potential challenges and the avoidance of conflict early on in the relationship.
All human progress is preceded by new questions. What new questions could you ask yourself today which will give you the new answers that can improve your life today and tomorrow? Remember, ask and you shall recieve. If you ask a terrible question, you’ll get a terrible answer. Your brain is ready to serve you, and whatever question you give it, it will surely give you an answer. Rather you like it or not! Lousy questions yield lousy answers. Why am I always screwing up? Why am I such a…?
Useful questions yield useful answers, which build our self esteem and self confidence. New answers come from new questions. If you are in a situation or have a challenge you’ve wrestled with for some time, try asking some new questions and listening for new answers. New questions yield brilliant new answers.
The Hot Pen MethodThe hot pen method of goal setting consists of the following guidelines:
- Blank paper
- Ink pen
- An absolute private place
- Comfortable surroundings
- No external stimuli such as TV, radio, or other people
- Write as fast as you can, anything and everything that pops into your head
- No judgement or analysis
Prior to getting started, consider these two questions:
- If you knew you couldn’t fail, what would you be, do, have or become?
- If money were no object, what would you be, do, have or become?
- Write goals for every area of your life:
- Spiritual, family, personal, financial, community, social, career, physical
Once again, don’t think too much, just write. Don’t evaluate, judge, or get practical, or logical. Don’t try to figure it out or conform to your perceived reality. JUST WRITE. If you find you can’yt think of anything or find it difficult, it’s because you have stopped dreaming. You’ve gotten too smart, too logical, too negative, too realistic …too grown up. Or maybe, just given up. If you have the ability to conceive, you can achieve with belief.
Dr. Perry Nickelston
1-866-595-7749 Ext. 102
VP of Practice Development for K-laser, USA and Clinic Director of The Pain Laser Center in Ramsey, NJ.
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